You know, I really thought I knew what I wanted, till the universe gave me exactly what I asked for and it blew up in my face in the worst possible way. I never took this exercise really seriously, but if you want to manifest the man of your dreams you have to be very clear about what you want. Get down and dirty down to the dirty details: be greedy, be extravagant, be bodacious, be bold, be true to yourself. Who is your dream man ( or woman ) ? Do you believe you deserve it? And without getting attached to the chase of finding the man of your dreams, attract without the fear of believing that your outrageous requests of the universe that your beliefs are in alignment. The law of attraction means you attract what you are. If you want all these gifts from the universe, are you returning that in return? Are you worthy? If you’re not, then now is a foundation to start working on yourself. You attract a mirror of you, so start with your inner work.
Dear Universe,
I want a man who is fun and sexy, in touch with his feminine side. Someone who is free and knows when to put down the time card, clock out and have fun. We don’t follow rules in here. Someone who loves to travel to new places, explore strange and foreign lands, buy one way tickets, meet strangers and live in the moment. A sensual lover, emotionally vulnerable with strength and gentleness and balance. Someone who can capture my sexual prowess, where I submit like a submissive kitten to his divine masculine. To be submissive I must feel safe and trust him enough to take off my armor. He must be trustworthy, honest, loyal, committed, authentic and walk with INTEGRITY always. A compassionate soul is inner beauty. He is concerned with the human spirit and soul.
He is an excellent communicator and allows me to be vulnerable in my feelings and also is unafraid to be vulnerable. He does not take mistakes, accidents and miscommunications personal. He is committed to being vulnerable, speaking from the heart, and communicating each others feelings, accepting, being vulnerable and listening without defensiveness. His ego does not run his decisions. He is someone committed to growth, overcoming obstacles, and calling each other out on our shit, but in a kind way with compassion and kindness. He doesn’t judge and accepts me for where I am on my journey and respects personal choices I must make.
He knows what he wants and doesn’t change and flip flop his desires, needs, wants, passions and goals. He is decisive and knows who he is. He is health conscious and likes fitness and takes care of his health. He is understanding when I am struggling with my shadow, and holds space. He does not project his own insecurities, shadow and feelings onto me. He is open minded to hear your opinions even if he disagrees. NO STEROIDS. I’m done with dudes with steroids. And drugs. I can’t do it anymore. I want to live a sober, healthy life, unclouded by self hate, escapism and a mind clouded by substance. A healthy balance is subjective. He has an abundant mind set and is successful at his creative projects and in his flow. He doesn’t second guess himself. He is following his passions. He doesn’t stay in comfort zones, keeps his word and executes. He is ready to be my partner in growth He is NOT confined by the boundaries of a matrix. He is open. A man with work ethic, who believes in himself, and believes in me, that together we’ll build anything successful.
He treats me like a princess. He never wants me to lift a finger. He massages my hair and worships my body. His touch is sensual and gentle but his hands are strong. Someone with a strong energetic and tantric connection on a soul shattering level. He babies me and allows me to be who I am even if sometimes that is imperfect. He allows things to be easy. He takes the path of least resistance. Things are not so hard. He loves me unconditionally. Lives in the moment, not in the head or fear of the future. I feel as though I can be completely vulnerable with him and trust. Feeds me grapes and massages my feet. I’m a goddess and a princess in a past life. And he drinks from my nectars as if it were the nectars of the gods. He is a giver. We can indulge in sexual fantasies and disappear and turn our phones off for days and stay in bed together. We’re the last two unicorns on the planet and we belong together. But he also knows when it’s time to turn it off and just give me quality time.
Someone embodied equally in his darkness. A dark empress needs a dark emperor. But the balance and polarity of the two make the light that much more juicer. You better talk dirty and smack that azz boy and bend me over the kitchen counter.
If he doesn’t know how to dance, I’ll teach him. If he doesn’t know how to play a musical instrument, I’ll teach him. If I don’t know how to do something, he’ll teach me, and we’ll delight in the growth of each other and the precious times spent together teaching each other the skills we harbor, growing deeper into connectivity within each other, sharing interests in music, spirituality, activities and sharing a life together naturally without forcing it, PATIENTLY.
I’m here for life and love. 🤍
What do you want in your dream man? Type below in the comments.
xoxo